Conversely, if you message a dude first, chances are he’s almost 7 percentile points MORE ATTRACTIVE than you.
That’s a lot of science that basically translates to: If you want to date a hottie, message him first.
If you have never tried online dating then you may be used to the more traditional type and roles that come along with it.This means that if a woman does nothing, her inbox will be filled with less attractive men.If you’re a woman just sitting around waiting for messages, then most likely the men contacting you are on average 5 percentile points LESS ATTRACTIVE than you.But a woman who DOES send the first message actually increases her chances of going on a date by about 2.5 times.
So ladies, if you know what you want, why not just MAKE THE MOVE?Here’s the difference: When you write to him first online, you’re making an introduction. You’re not telling him how much you have in common. Just because you get emails from guys does not mean that they are the men that you want.