It feels like the guy is having his cake and eating it too, but isn’t just the sex-cake of yore; it’s also the feelings-cake of today.It’s , but the milk is blowjobs as well as talking about his life and his feelings and giving him supportive responses and equal parts adoration in return. And most importantly, there’s zero obligation on either part, only it feels like there’s too much going on for there not to be. (And shitty.)Dating, as fraught as it is to do a dance of courtship, at least used to be something like layaway, in that it came with the possibility of something more committed down the road if both parties agreed.I love sex and love the female body.""I was looking for friendship and sex. Largely never thought I'd find a wife and the idea of sex without the emotional component of intimacy never worked out for me.""Any of the above is a treasure.I enjoy sex, but I don't spend most of my time with other people having it. I eventually married my best friend.""I'm not looking for anything per se. A wife, ultimately, but casual sex is nice and so is friendship.""Friend.Perhaps congratulations are in order for cracking the monogamy code, but possibly the woman you are with is very confused.We know this because over at As its name suggests, the several-night stand is like a one-night stand, but takes place over several nights, often over a period of weeks or months.Hanging out: If you go Dutch because obviously you’re going to go Dutch, no discomfort, no uncertainty, no question, no stress, no panic, wallets out for everybody.
Hanging out: If they ask you normal questions, like whether you think Justin Bieber is going to get deported and also was good, or just kind of good? It is always possible — confusing, but possible — that someone for real wants to be your friend. Here’s how you know: Hanging out: If they make plans Friday for Friday, because , you know?