You might not even have a defined “type,” you just know that whatever it is, he’s not it. You don’t actually know what you want, and not knowing what you want means you’ll never be satisfied in a relationship. Make a list, but make sure it’s not too specific... You Stick to Your Specific List of Must-Haves You’ve written up a list of qualities that defines your dream guy, from a specific down-to-the-decimal number in his bank account, to the placement of the dimple on his left cheek (okay, well, maybe not that specific).
I just want to be able to sort out those guys from the good guys. After working with so many clients, I have learned a lot of women do not know the difference between “forgivable mistakes” and the more sinister red flags that should warn you off of a relationship.
Are you so focused on your path to the perfect guy that you can’t see the imperfect-but-perfect-for-you guy outside your blinders?